Did you know your Smart??

Daddy の発言 :
今いい？
Daddy の発言 :
出発が １０：３０ になった。
Mommy の発言 :
夜の10時30分？
Daddy の発言 :
はい
Mommy の発言 :
電車？バス？
Daddy の発言 :
バス
でも CoCo を学校から Pick up した方がいいかなと思い
Daddy の発言 :
だって、Mommy, Mommy, Mommy,.......
ずっと言ってたら大変ですから、、、
Mommy の発言 :
5時45分にピックアップできる？
Daddy の発言 :
んそう使用かとおもって、、、
又は一緒に食事してそれから行くけど
どう思う？
Daddy の発言 :
訂正： んそうしようかとおもって、、、
又は一緒に食事してそれから行くけど
どう思う？
Daddy の発言 :
新宿から出発です。
Mommy の発言 :
いいよ
Daddy の発言 :
最近、Mika につい甘えて来たのような気がして
Mommy の発言 :
あまり深刻にかんがえないで、、、
Mommy の発言 :
おきているときのほぼ全部を保育園にいるんだよ
Mommy の発言 :
寂しくてもがまんして、Cocoはがんばっているんだよ
Mommy の発言 :
保育園へ迎えにいくとCocoは友達とあそんでいても
Mommy の発言 :
わたしに飛びついてくるよ
Daddy の発言 :
いいょ、心配はそんなにないけど
Mommy の発言 :
ちょっとぐらい甘えてもいいんじゃない
Daddy の発言 :
もちろん
Daddy の発言 :
ちょっとだけの間でも離れられないのが気になるだけかな
Mommy の発言 :
今だけだよ。
Daddy の発言 :
そうですネ
Mommy の発言 :
保育園で別れるときおお泣きしてる
Mommy の発言 :
でも、先生はCocoちゃんすぐに友達と
Mommy の発言 :
遊ぶから心配ないですよ
Mommy の発言 :
って言ってるよ
Daddy の発言 :
なるほど、普通ですネ。
Mommy の発言 :
Cocoは頭いいんだよ
Daddy の発言 :
いいと言うか、、、もっと頭良くしなきゃ
Mommy の発言 :
ランチにいきますので、、、
Daddy の発言 :
はいー
Daddy の発言 :
いってらっしゃい

As you see, Mommy knows you are smart too.
However it is my goal to make you smarter, more intelligent, and more courageous than other children.

The Odaiba Date

My Dear Daughter,

Sunday we had a terrific date together. Of course you are only 2 years 7 months but I call it a date. We left the house at about 12 noon and left by bycycle to Hinode-Sanbashi where the water-bus "boats" leave. From there we took the yellow boat to Odaiba - beach where we played and kicked in the sand.
There on the sand I bought you a frankfurter but you didnt like that and refused to eat it. So we went back to the beach and saw some guy feeding the birds with bread crumbs. He gave us some bread crumbs to give to the pigeons and seagulls. The seagulls would fly all around and you kept saying birds--birds--birds while pointing at them.
When we ran out of bread crumbs you asked for pan-pan (your word for bread) so I went and bought you a churro. I tried to feed you the churro but you turned your head because you were not used to the shape of churro's so I had to feed it to you forcefully. After you got some of the sugar on your lips you asked for more and even held it yourself.
From there we went to Joyopolis. Joyopolis is a arcade amusement center in Odaiba. There were not too many games or rides that you could get on at that age so we took a picture on the Mickey Mouse car and pounded on the alligator game, etc. and then moved on (the weather was too good to stay in there!).
From there we went to the ferris wheel and you immediately asked to get off but as we started to look around you started to enjoy yourself. We did the whole loop and you pointed at the boats the train(monorail) and Tokyo Tower. From there we went to the other pier in Odaiba (near the ferris wheel) and waited for the next boat to take us back to Hinode-sanbashi.
This time we rode a white boat back and halfway through we started throwing the popcorn (what you call snack) and again the birds would gather all around and catch the kernels we would throw. Once again you were quite excited and once we were off the boat you demanded we go back and ride a boat again.
From there we rode the bicycle home (halfway you ate a nikuman dumpling) and when we got home Daddy started to take a nap -- secretly hoping that you would sleep too or play by yourself. Well you too fell asleep and you slept right on daddy's face.

It was a fantastic date!

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OK I did it again.

I royally pissed off another webmaster.

CoCo,

This post was basicaly about when you bumped your brow on a glass table at Chon-san's.
By the time you read this I anticipate that you will still have a light scar under your left eybrow - probably where the hair doesn't grow.
At this time you normaly stay with Jesse, your babysitter, and Teman, her son.
She took you to Chon-san's home who is your Mom's friend. She has a 2 year old daughter Jasmine that is your friend also.

The problem is

A) Chon-san's home is not childproof.

B) You were tired and Jesse does not give you a daily nap like you need.

This is the first bad effect of your Mothers poor decision making - namely to divorce.
I insisted that you go to a Montessori school (expensive in tokyo) and for that your mother should work.
But now that your mother and I are divorced we cannot afford to send you to a good school so Mika (your mom) is having Jesse watch over you.
If you were in my custody I would send you to school.

Back to the incedent. Chon-san is in denial. She says it "was just an accident" and "was bound to happen anyway."
I dont agree. I think it was preventable for the above listed reasons.
You were watching a video with Teman and Jasmine and the video had "UP and DOWN" excercises.
Apparently you suddenly sat up and as you ducked down you hit your head on the glass table in front of you.

Jesse took you to Hiro hospital.
She tried to call your Mom, but your Mom cannot answer the phone while she is working.
The doctor reccomended to give you stitches, By the time I was contacted I said I would go right away but your Mom emailed me saying that they already made the decision without consulting the parents.
When I got to the hospotal I asked the doctor to explain why he decided to go with stitches. He said it would have been just as well to have used a seri-strip (aka butterfly) but there is more chance of movement with them.
It is my understanding that in the US we use the non-invasive butterfly with smaller cuts that are not succeptable to movement because the chance of scarring is lower.

I had posted because I wanted to find out if this was true or not.


I was extremely worried that because of the stitches rather than the butterfly you will yave a larger scar.
But all in all you took it like a trooper and you almost seem to enjoy the fact that you have a real "ouch" that brings you extra attention from Mommy and Daddy.

Love from your disappointed (but not in you) but loving,

Daddy

Dear Westsan,

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By Westsan on Monday, January 17, 2005 - 10:10 pm:



The doctor put 4 black nylon stitches in a 1cm cut on my baby girls brow.




That seems to me to be FAR too many stitches for what I assume would have been
done with a butterfly in were it USA.



Is Japanese medical practice archaic (brutal) or am I overreacting???



I asked the doctor (Fuji-something)
and he said they used a finer stitch but I dont think
a stitch was necessary at all!

Esp. not 4!!!! Dont stitches cause more/a
larger scar that a butterfly would?



Furthermore isnt it better to use the kind of
stitches that disappear naturally to avoid scarring?!



If anyone knows please share with me? Because I am
about to overreact to a lawyer!



If your in the Azabu area dont take your kid to the Hiroo Hospital.



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Use this link to go directly to the discussion: http://www.tokyowithkids.com/cgi/discus/show.cgi?35/1312 By Westsan on Thursday, January
13, 2005 - 10:32 pm:

westsan needs a handout too!
specifically Barney, Teletubbies,
Maisy, and Sesame Street (w/Elmo [my hero]).

However, I will pay gladly pay for these items - or any educational materials
that might teach my daughter the value of a dollar (or yen).



By Westsan on Thursday, January
13, 2005 -

07:18 pm:

most of those videos are FOR SALE @ Kinokuniya

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By Westsan on Monday, January 17, 2005 - 10:09 pm:
The doctor put 4 black nylon stitches in a 1cm cut on my baby girls brow.

That seems to me to be FAR too many stitches for what I assume would have been done with a butterfly in were it USA.

Is Japanese medical practice archaic (brutal) or am I overreacting???

I asked the doctor (Fuji-something) and he said they used a finer stitch but I dont think a stitch was necessary at all! Esp. not 4!!!!
Dont stitches cause more/a larger scar that a butterfly would?

Furthermore isnt it better to use the kind of stitches that disappear naturally to avoid scarring?!

If anyone knows please share with me? Because I am about to overreact to a lawyer!

If your in the Azabu area dont take your kid to the Hiroo Hospital.

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My OB recommended to wait until the baby is 8 days old before doing it.

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People should understand the link between aggression and circumcision.
It is a very Freudian concept but... if your freudian like myself you will understand that that first extreme pain in your penis bears a tremendous effect on your development.
Studies have shown that countries that circumcise are aggressive relative to those that are not.

However, I am very happy with my little girl.

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OK, I am still trying to figure out this blog thing.
I clicked the button on by google toolbar and in it went.
So now you know. Im a poster. MOF: I am a heavy poster on all kinds of sites.
I love it. Hopefully I can convert some of that energy to be a blogger...

The above is a post of me getting smart with some lady selfish lady acting for a handout on a thread that says in all caps: FOR SALE
I guess she doesnt read...